Shanghai Dominatrix: My Journey Meeting Over 35 Submissives Through Reddit
As a professional dominatrix in Shanghai, I’ve always valued the unique connections I build with submissives. Over the years, one platform that has surprisingly opened doors to an incredible variety of individuals has been Reddit. Through Reddit, I’ve met over 35 submissives who have sought me out for sessions. This experience has been nothing short of fascinating, filled with memorable moments and intriguing dynamics.
The Appeal of Reddit for BDSM Enthusiasts
Reddit, as a social platform, offers anonymity and the ability to connect with like-minded individuals worldwide. Many submissives use it to explore their fantasies discreetly. The platform has become a melting pot for kinksters to share experiences, ask questions, and seek advice, making it an ideal avenue for me to find genuine individuals seeking authentic BDSM experiences.
The submissives I’ve met through Reddit have varied widely in age, nationality, and experience level. From curious beginners looking for their first taste of submission to seasoned subs craving a tailored session, each encounter has been distinct.
Creating Connections: From DMs to the Dungeon
The journey typically starts with a message — a polite, well-crafted DM expressing interest in meeting me. What sets Reddit subs apart is their thoughtfulness in communication. Many take time to explain their interests, boundaries, and experiences. This allows me to assess compatibility and build a customized session based on mutual kinks and desires.
After moving past the initial conversation, I carefully vet each submissive through video calls or detailed chats to ensure safety and authenticity. Once trust is established, we arrange an in-person meeting in Shanghai or nearby cities like Suzhou and Hangzhou.
Memorable Experiences from Reddit Connections
- The Shy Corporate Executive
A mid-30s expat working as an executive at a multinational company reached out, expressing his desire to surrender control after years of being in charge. Our session was an exploration of his vulnerability, as he embraced being tied and disciplined for the first time. His transformation from hesitant to fully immersed was deeply rewarding. - The Artist Exploring Chastity
An aspiring artist was fascinated by chastity and sought guidance on incorporating it into his lifestyle. I introduced him to the nuances of keyholding and devised a creative challenge where he produced art inspired by his submissive journey.
Building Unique Connections
Meeting over 35 submissives through Reddit has been a testament to the power of digital communities in bringing people together. Each individual has contributed to my growth as a dominatrix and deepened my appreciation for the diverse ways submission can manifest.
