How I Select and Empower My Clients as a Dominatrix in Shanghai

Femdom & Chastity Mistress
2 min readAug 13, 2024

As a dominatrix in Shanghai, I only met about 75% of the men who contacted me. Some of the remaining 25% did’t even receive an email back from me if I was not interested. This selective approach allows me to carefully choose the clients I engage with, ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience for both parties.

For me, it is not simply a matter of physical attraction or financial gain. I seek men who are naturally submissive, open-minded, and willing to explore the depths of their desires. In my presence, these men find liberation from societal norms and constraints, a chance to surrender to their innermost fantasies and embrace the ecstasy of submission.

When it comes to my interactions with potential clients, I prioritize communication and consent. I believe that open and honest communication is key to a successful dominatrix-submissive relationship. This means discussing boundaries, desires, and expectations before any session takes place. By setting clear boundaries and establishing mutual trust, I am able to create a safe space for exploration and play.

In my role as a dominatrix, I embrace my power and authority while respecting the autonomy and agency of my clients. I use a variety of techniques, tools, and props to create the desired dynamic during a session. Whether it’s bondage, impact play, or sensory deprivation, my goal is always to push boundaries and explore new experiences in a consensual and respectful manner.

I take pride in my ability to read and understand my clients’ needs and desires. Through active listening and observation, I am able to tailor each session to meet their individual preferences. By maintaining a high level of professionalism and attention to detail, I am able to provide a fulfilling and satisfying experience for all involved.

Ultimately, being a dominatrix in Shanghai is about more than just physical play. It’s about creating a safe and empowering space for exploration, growth, and self-discovery. By fostering communication, consent, and mutual respect, I am able to build meaningful connections with my clients and help them fulfill their deepest desires.

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Femdom & Chastity Mistress
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I am Mistress Alessandra in Shanghai who offers custom BDSM sessions and online chastity keyholding service. allmylinks.com/chastitykeyholder

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