Dacryphilia in Practice: A Scenario for a Canadian Submissive in Shanghai
Dacryphilia is a fetish or kink in which a person experiences arousal from tears or the act of crying.
Some people are turned on by their own crying; others are turned on by seeing another person crying. Some people are also turned on by the emotional release that crying brings.
With this in mind, I designed a personalized dacryphilia scene for a Canadian submissive in Shanghai, carefully structuring the experience to fulfill their specific desires while maintaining a strong emphasis on consent and emotional safety.
The initial exchange is quiet, almost meditative: a conversation that invites vulnerability. “Tell me about a place you miss,” the prompt might begin, coaxing out a memory — the crunch of snow underfoot in a Canadian winter, the smell of pine after rain. As his voice falters, the first glisten of tears appears, a fragile prelude to what’s to come.
The scenario is built around a gradual emotional unraveling, where I guide him into a state of controlled distress — not through physical pain, but through psychological intensity. Prolonged eye contact, moments of deliberate silence, and carefully worded questions deepen the emotional exposure, peeling away layers of guardedness. There is no cruelty, only precision — the right words at the right moment, allowing the weight of nostalgia, longing, and surrender to take hold.
As the tears begin to flow, the power dynamic subtly shifts. I do not interrupt, nor do I rush. Instead, I maintain presence and control, letting the emotion unfold naturally. When the moment reaches its peak, I transition into a nurturing role, offering comfort, reassurance, and gentle physical contact. A soft touch on the back of the hand, a whispered acknowledgment, the slow return of warmth and safety.
This aftercare stage is just as essential as the buildup — ensuring that the release is not just arousing, but also emotionally fulfilling. The experience becomes more than just a fetish; it is a complicated interplay of power, vulnerability, and deep human connection. It requires a profound understanding of psychology and an ability to navigate the delicate balance between control, release, and care.
